Showing posts with label ageism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label ageism. Show all posts

Monday, April 1, 2013

Poll: how old are Ravelers ?


I've been following this thread in Ravelry for quite a while now.

I find all of this discussion fascinating for two reasons: 
First it seems that none of the posters are questioning the truth of the data beyond it perhaps not reflecting knitters as a whole community. I get the sense that even Ravelers tend to think that most knitters fit into a demographic somewhere north of 50 or 60. I notice there is quite a bit of commentary about older knitters being less likely to use the Internet or social media sites. That may be an accurate assumption based on this research from 2012. Secondly, I feel that some of the discussion reflects ageism in our larger culture. After all why are we asking the question if not to categorize. Years ago I read a suggestion that to determine if there is a prejudice at work simply change the target group. So what happens if we ask about the gender, race, abilities, religion, nationality or socioeconomic status of knitters?

Survey information collection is generally considered to be flawed at best by most researchers. It is used because information is hard to come by and it provides a starting point for further research. Poll size is frequently cited by statisticians as being at fault for skewing the results. There are over 2 million Ravelers but only about 11,000 have completed the survey. That percentage of response would not be considered acceptable by most researchers. So is that number truly reflective of the total knitting community both on and off Ravelry?

We have no information on response rate or compliance rate which is critical in any survey situation. In other words how many knitters saw the poll and how many of those who saw it chose to answer. 

Why do some people do the poll and others do not has an impact on the results. If you don't care about the topic or are simply uninterested in the answer you are less likely to add your information. Many people are very private about topics relating to demographics and would never share this information in any situation.

Ravelry is international but the poll is in English so how would non English speaking knitters change the data?

In my previous corporate life I worked for an amazingly ageist company. Anyone over 40 was considered less valuable as an employee. When I was 45 I was told during a review by a younger manager that I was clearly just counting my days until retirement. I was so shocked by her rudeness at the time I didn't even respond. That experience has most definitely skewed my perception on the topic of ageism. Perhaps I've become oversensitive?

I've also read that ageism is much more prevalent among individuals who lack the experience of an extended family. I was lucky to have two of my four grandparents living in my parent's home at various times. My maternal grandfather was one of the most highly self-educated individuals I have ever encountered. My paternal grandmother was traveling the world in her late seventies after being an entrepreneurial go-getter for many years. Having those relationships makes me very open to seeing older individuals as having a great deal to offer me as role models for my own life.

In most marketing campaigns we see a clear preference for attracting younger consumers. The theory here is said to be "get em young and keep them for a lifetime". In truth the boomers are said to control a much more significant portion of all consumer spending yet are largely ignored by advertising and retail product development. 

Before I step off my soapbox I have to share that I'm also pretty amused by younger people who reject others on the basis of age, after all it won't be long before it starts happening to them too!

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Have you been Ma'am-ed yet?


I think it's a right of passage, somewhere around our 40th birthday  we stop being referred to as Miss and start hearing the dreaded Ma'am word. I know that most people claim that it is a sign of respect but the first time I heard it it was a bit of a shock. It told me that the perception of me to the rest of the world had just crossed a line and it was one that I wasn't sure which side I wished to be on. I like my life so it's easy to be happy about who I am right now and truly I do feel that there are many perks to being older and a lot less angst. My husband felt the same sense of discomfort the first time a teenager called him Sir so I know it's not just a sexist term more an ageist one.

A few years ago a friend who is a little older than me gave me a some insight into how this perception of us by younger people progresses. She told me that she feels invisible, and generally disregarded as an old person. I suppose it's a reflection of our society at large. 

We had some ageism show up at the Knitting Guild I belong to a few months ago. A new member while complimenting the format of our meetings and the programming wanted to find the same thing but in a group with younger members. I had a great conversation about it with some of my knitting friends and the two youngest (one more than 20 years younger than me),didn't really see the new member's point. We also discussed the age of the guilds executive which is generally older than the average age of the members. I think this may be due to the fact that most younger women especially those with children simply don't have the time  available to commit to the hours of unpaid volunteer work necessary to make the guild run. I like having friends of different ages as it adds to my experience of the world to hear how people at different stages of life feel about various topics.When I started thinking about it my friends have a forty year age range and I value them independently of their number of years on this earth.

BTW, You can buy the apron here.

Friday, June 12, 2009

Retiring?

I worked for Bell Canada for a long time. I started as an operator when I was 17 and worked part time through High School and University. After completing a Psychology degree at the University of Toronto I settled down in a full time position and pursued knitting purely as a hobby. I was always passionate about fashion and clothing and that gave me a great deal of enjoyment.

At Bell ageism was a fact of life and retirement packages came out regularly. My husband and I carefully assessed the first two that I qualified for and in both cases decided I should keep working. Our financial planner advised me that the only really sure way to take a package and be completely confident that the decision was right was to assess it and make the assumption that you might never work again. If the assessment determined that you would be OK under those conditions then she said go for it!

In 2004 another package came out. Rumours were rampant that more people would be eligible than ever before. The rumours were wrong! Eligibility followed the same legally determined rules as always. However the offer was the best Bell ever made and included an unprecedented increase in pensionable earnings. When I did the assessment it made no financial sense to stay... so goodbye Bell Canada.

I was 48 at the time and not ready to retire. I did explore a knitting career at the time but couldn't see a way that worked for me. I worked on contract for another year at Bell and then did a stint at Village Yarns http://www.villageyarns.com/ I eventually ended up at a small Bay Street brokerage firm doing reception and basic administration work.